No 2 Gays About It
By Tom Burke & Michael Foley
Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!
Latest episode
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The Importance of Gay Representation On and Off Screen
Queer representation in TV and film has played a pivotal role in shaping societal progress, from visibility to landmark victories like marriage equality. But Tom and Michael ask: where are today's stories showcasing older gay men in media? And is... -
Thanksgiving’s Over—Now Let’s Dish! Stories & Holiday Strategies
Join Tom and Michael for a post-Thanksgiving "dish" session! In this hilarious and heartfelt episode, they recount their favorite, worst, and most outrageous Thanksgiving memories. From culinary disasters to unforgettable moments, the duo serves up a… -
Is This It? Reflecting on Life’s Expectations and What’s Next
"Is this it?" That's the question Tom and Michael dive into this week as they reflect on where they are in life versus where they imagined they’d be. Are they living the dream they once pictured, or is there more to accomplish? As they look ahead to.… -
How Seasonal Shift Affects Us
In this week's episode, Michael and Tom dive into the effects of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and how seasonal changes impact mental health. We discuss personal experiences, tips for managing those gloomy days, and share some light-hearted... -
Can Gay Regret Be Good For You?
In this episode, Tom and Michael take a deep dive into a topic many gay men, especially those over 50, often grapple with: regret. From personal, professional, and sexual regrets to those uniquely colored by LGBTQ+ experiences, they explore the... -
Have You Given Up On Dating?
In this episode, Michael and Tom dive into the hot topic of hooking up vs. dating! They break down the differences, share the pros and cons of today's dating scene, and take a hard look at the common complaints within the over 50 Gay Community. Are w… -
5 Plans You Need for your Financial Future
After our eye-opening episode last season on financial readiness and planning for the future, we realized this conversation needed to go even deeper. We were thrilled when Kirk Bremer, AIF®, reached out after watching that episode to share his expert… -
How To Make Your Vote MATTER
In this episode, Michael and Tom tackle the complexities of voting, breaking down everything from the Electoral College to swing states and more. With Election Day just around the corner, they’ll explain how the system works and, most importantly,... -
Understanding the Many Layers of Gay Trauma
In this episode, Tom and Michael revisit listener feedback from their recent discussion on PTSD, uncovering a common theme: as gay men, we’ve all endured multiple layers of trauma—often sharing similar experiences. While we can’t solve this... -
Ageism and the Gay Man
In this episode of No 2 Gays About It, Tom and Michael get real about ageism in the gay community—from experiences in the workplace to dealing with age-related bias in healthcare. They discuss how ageism creeps into different aspects of our lives,...
