Honey, We Need to Chat
By Honey, We Need to Chat
Honey, We Need to Chat is the podcast for couples who want to fight less, connect more, and actually enjoy talking again.
We’re Amy and Blair, a real-life couple sharing honest conversations, relatable stories, and practical tools to help you navigate conflict, deepen communication, and build a relationship that feels good, not just looks good.
We dive into wild Reddit threads, expert interviews, real-life coaching, and hard-earned lessons, offering fresh insights and actionable steps you can use today! Because when communication dies, bad things happen. So... let’s chat!
We’re Amy and Blair, a real-life couple sharing honest conversations, relatable stories, and practical tools to help you navigate conflict, deepen communication, and build a relationship that feels good, not just looks good.
We dive into wild Reddit threads, expert interviews, real-life coaching, and hard-earned lessons, offering fresh insights and actionable steps you can use today! Because when communication dies, bad things happen. So... let’s chat!
Latest episode
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77. Season of Transition: Our Big Life Update + Future Pacing Exercise for Clarity
Big personal update from us this week, Amy has just landed a full-time coaching role and the whole family rhythm is about to shift. In this episode we share how it all came together (it's a good story), what it means for the podcast,… -
76. How to Show Up in Your Relationship When You Don’t Feel Like It (Survival Seasons Explained)
This week on Honey, We Need to Chat, we almost didn’t record.After a chaotic week of sickness, exhaustion, and zero preparation, we found ourselves asking a question that every couple faces at some poi… -
75: "Are You Okay?" Why That Question Backfires & What To Say Instead
Does this sound familiar? You can tell something's off with your partner. You ask "are you okay?" They say "I'm fine." You ask again. They snap. You spiral. They shut down completely. -
THROWBACK: The Mental Load: Why One Partner Is Always Exhausted (And What To Do About It)
The mental load is real, invisible, and quietly exhausting. Amy and Blair break down what it is, why it's so hard to see, and how to finally talk about it.Today we're thro… -
74. Stop Trying to Be the Perfect Partner: Perfectionism, Family Pressure & Relationship Stress
Have you ever planned the perfect family weekend, date night, holiday, or special moment, only to end up stressed, snappy, and feeling like you ruined it?In this episode, we explore perfectionism in relationships, emotiona… -
73. The Pre-Marriage Conversations Nobody Warns You About | Pre-Marital Coaching
What questions should every couple answer before getting married? Blair & Amy break down 13 marriage therapist-identified topics across 4 blocks: money & roles, communication, family & in-laws, and intimacy. This is y… -
72. Marriage Hot Takes: What You Must Talk About Before You Get Married (Communication, Compatibility, Boundaries)
If you’re planning a wedding, engaged, newly married, or 10 years in, this episode is for you.We’re reacting to marriage hot takes and the stuff people wish they’d talked about before the big d… -
71. “I Love You… But I Don't Like Your Friends": Tips & Reddit Stories
Ever loved your partner… but couldn’t stand their friends?In this episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, we unpack the messy reality of when your partner’s friend… -
70. The Social Load: When One Partner Withdraws
We’ve talked about the mental load — but today we’re diving into another hidden pressure in relationships: the social load.The social load includes the practical work of managing friendships, i… -
