The Jonnie Jensen Show

How Not To Have A Bad Dad Christmas

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Are you looking forward to Christmas - or secretly dreading it?


Whether it’s financial stress, family tensions, or feeling disconnected, Christmas doesn’t have to suck.


In this episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show, we dive into how to transform your holiday experience into one that’s full of joy, connection, and intention.


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What You’ll Learn in This Episode:


Recognising the Pressures of Christmas:


  • Why men often feel like they have to "carry" the holidays (gifts, logistics, keeping everyone happy).
  • The opposite problem—disconnecting and leaving all the work to your partner.
  • The impact of financial worries and unmet expectations.


Breaking the Cycle of Crap Christmases:


  • How to get clear on what you want Christmas to look like.
  • Using the 3XC Formula (Clarity, Courage, Commitment) to rewrite your holiday story.
  • Starting fresh: Manage family expectations, avoid over-committing, and bring the joy yourself.


Practical Tips for a Better Christmas:


  • Clarity: Plan ahead—what would your ideal holiday look like? Have intentional conversations with your partner and family to identify areas of improvement.
  • Courage: Show up as the calm, grounded leader your family needs. Address awkward family tensions with empathy and be the bigger man.
  • Commitment: Simplify the day, share the workload, and focus on creating meaningful moments rather than perfection.


Single Dad Survival Strategies:


  • Can’t see your kids this Christmas? Why Christmas doesn’t have to happen on December 25th.
  • Focus on connection, whether it’s with friends, family, or your community, to avoid being alone.
  • Reframing challenges: Create your own traditions and make the most of your situation.


Dealing with Loss During the Holidays:


  • Honour those who are no longer with you by celebrating their memory.
  • Share stories, toast to loved ones, and focus on connection with those still here.


Key Takeaways:


  • Christmas is what you make it—whether it’s reworking traditions, communicating better with your partner, or simplifying the logistics.
  • Don’t let financial stress, family politics, or unmet expectations ruin your holiday.
  • Lead with intention, empathy, and a commitment to creating a joyful experience for everyone, including yourself.


It's Your Time...


No matter how challenging your past Christmases have been, you can make this one different. Show up, lead with intention, and make it a holiday to remember. Let’s go! 🎄


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